P0rnography is everywhere, from our various neighbourhoods, to the TV programmes, to the Internets , the list keeps increasing. . . The rate at which our ladies are constantly contributing to the promotion of por nography is alarming. From indecent dressing to irrelevant fashions, and tight-fitting attires.
Its hardly possible to go a day without seeing a lady dressing indecently on the street. If as a guy i am not confortable with going outside my gate in just my boxers and singlet to get something from the Northerner in front of my house, i don't understand aw some ladies can walk from Mushin to Oshodi in just a bumper short or micro-mini skirt and a sleeveless top, revealing their Breast-vages and breast-pits to the public.
Well, truly pornography is much more than that but thats where it starts from, infact for me its under the same category.
Gone are the days when we surf hard on the internet to find porn, now its all over the internet, from facebook to twitter to badoo to tagged to mini-webpages and so on. . . Many didnt start viewing pornography out of a delibrately act but cos of their curiosity. One could be innocently surfing the internet one cold night and suddenly u get a pop-up notifying u to click on a web page which actually is a porn site and from there, they get trapped. . . Many actually regret this action and strive to correct their mistake but its not been easy doing so, but truly i must tell u, the habitual act of viewing pornography does more harm to u than the temporary pleasure u derive.
So. . . .
Among many, here are some reasons why you should stop watching pornography and hence stop masturbating:
~IT'S AN IMPORTANT STEP U MUST TAKE IF U WANT TO GIVE UP MASTU RBATION.
Masturbation is the delibrate stimulation one's genitals or that of others which often leads to orgasm. Before i tell u how quitting of porn viewing helps to curb masturbation, u must know why u shouldnt masturbate.
Masturbation is a spiritually unhealthy habit which instills in one an atittude of self-centredness and corrupt mind. A masturbator in time will grow to view others as mere sex object for sexual satisfaction. Sex becomes seperated from love and is relegated to a reflex that gives momentary a relieves sexual tension of which the relief is only temporary. A masturbator lacks self control, they get overly aroused at every slight sexual incident. Lets say a lady's body touches him on a queue, or in a bus or he or she sees a poster revealing little part of the body. Most rapist are unrepentant masturbators. They get seduced easily, imagine a little girl of four years old sitting on the legs of a 30 years old masturbator, without doubt he will start feeling aroused since he lacks self control. Most fathers who rapes their child are chronic masturbator who couldnt just control them selves. Masturbation clouds the thinking of such ones who indulge in it.
All they ever think about is how to please them selves, they can get off any where. This is a bad habit that needs to be eradicated in ones life. One step towards quitting masturbation is to avoid pornography of every kind. Especially on the internet, block ur way to it, block all pop-up notification, use ur computers and phones in public places where you are not free to watch porn. To quit masturbation it is very compulsory to avoid pornography.
~DESTROYS UR CONSCIENCE
when we were created, our conscience was put in us to guide us from bad and towards good, to help us differentiate from right and wrong. Howbeit for our conscience to always remain effective, we must use and nurture or train it wisely.
Recollect that the first time u viewed a porn ur conscience pricked u (that is if u av one). You wernt free watching it, u were hiding it. U wernt proud to tell others the title of the film u just watched or aw interesting it was.
You wanted to watch again the second time and as usual ur conscience tried to warn you but u shut it up. As time goes on, the more often u watch it and shut up ur conscience the more ineffective it becomes. It comes to a point when ur conscience stays silent even as ure on a wrong part, it doesnt try to stop u again, it leaves you. As at then uve killed ur conscience. A precious gift from God to man. And thats when u see nothing wrong in a man lik u inserting his joystick in the anus of another guy just lik u, thats when see nothing wrong in a lady lik u putting her whole arm-length in the vagina of another lady. U then promote to watching a human lik u being chained with iron fetters as such used for samson and being gang-raped by 4 men at the same time. You then graduate to applauding when you see two mature idiots having sex in a church and still u feel its ok. You then promote to watching humans lik you having sex with horse, dogs, even monkeys and probably elephants and u still smile cos of the temporary pleasure ure getting which has actually killed ur conscience.
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